Find the MAGIC in Family Mealtime

September is Family Meals Month! Many studies have been done on the positive impact that family meals can have on a child’s vocabulary/reading skills, overall physical health, and even mental well-being. Waving your magic wand won’t put dinner on the table, but understanding the benefits will help you make mealtime more magical. Read on below to learn what makes family mealtime so magical.

M – Memories

Your kids will remember that you sat down together as a family.

A – Academics

Researchers have found that for young children, dinnertime chats teach kids more words, even more than being read to. The researchers counted the number of rare words – those not found on a list of 3,000 most common words – that the families used during dinner conversation. Young kids learned 1,000 rare words at the dinner table, compared to only 143 from parents reading storybooks. Kids who have a large vocabulary read earlier and more easily.

Other researchers reported a consistent association between family dinner frequency and teen academic performance. Teens who ate family meals 5 to 7 times a week were twice as likely to get A’s in school as those who ate dinner with their families fewer than two times a week.”

– thefamilydinnerproject.org

G – Games

Dinnertime can be made more fun with a simple game. On a day when there’s no time for a prepared recipe, play a game of Let’s Create. Set out different types of finger food or a variety of ingredients to make subs, sandwiches or wraps.

Instead of specific conversation, play a game that gets each family member involved such as “I remember when…” or “I spy”. Have fun reminiscing about your favorite vacation or taking turns explaining what your dream pet would be and why.

Play a round of Create a Story. One person starts off with once upon a time. Go around the table and each person adds a few sentences. Before you know it, you’ll be laughing at what each person came up with, and where they story ends.

These types of activities encourage creativity as well as build conversation/vocabulary skills. For more dinnertime game ideas, click here. For a printable Family Mealtime Bingo game, click here.

I – Imagination

When kids are involved and engaged at mealtime, their creativity and imagination really comes to life!  Allow them to create their own pizza or stack a sandwich. Older kids can help set and decorate the table and measure ingredients. Let your teens try their hand at blending spices and slicing veggies. Their creativity will probably surprise you! These small methods of involvement can further develop artistic and motor skills, and even secretly teach them math and science.

C – Consistency

While family mealtime won’t calm worldwide turmoil or end the pandemic, it can add a sense of stability and lighten the sometimes dreary mood. Maintaining a fairly predictable schedule can add additional security, but don’t be afraid to change up the dynamics. Have a picnic in your yard, eat at a local park, or hold a family movie night with homemade pizza. Consistency may be more important than ever with the daily changes our families are seeing. Kids who feel stability and security are less likely to feel anxious and stressed, resulting in better academic performance as well!

Thanks to Candi Merrit

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